It’s no good complaining about all the things they do and don’t do that they shouldn’t and should. Sure, you can rant all day long. No doubt, you can moan all night long and waste your energy. Complain about the coulds and woulds and shoulds of the game.
Or you can get on with it.
Get on with telling them what you need and when, with telling them why and how it will make things better. You can make them accountable. You can hold them accountable. You can be explicit, and (if necessary) a little bit of a pain with updates and progress reports that show the lack of update and progress.
Get on with putting your energy somewhere more progressive. Get on with doing all the thing you need to do so you’re not the one they’re complaining about.
Skippy strategy: Don’t moan about it, take steps anyway.
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