April 25, 2025

Many parents

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People fall in love with their own ideas. As soon as they’ve formed in their head and they’re out of their mouth or committed to a whiteboard, most people have a parental affection for their imaginings.

Which is good and bad.

Good because it means they’ll argue and advocate – so everyone can stress-test them against own ideas.

Bad because the argument – from a forceful or authoritative person or in an overwhelming fashion, or just because it was first out of the gate – can stifle other, better, stronger, smarter ideas.

The job is to get ideas on the table but treat them simply as intriguing objects – unattached to the idea-machine who put them there.

How?

Get ideas out early and in groups (brainstorm) with everyone making every idea better until everyone has a share of parental love.

Only then begin the debate.

Skippy strategy: Good ideas have many parents.

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